Emotional Vampires Dealing with People Who Drain You Dry Revised and Expanded 2nd Edition

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ISBN: 9780071790963
Release Date: 2012-06-15
Number of pages: 304
Author: Albert Bernstein
Publisher: McGraw Hill Professional

Download and read online Emotional Vampires Dealing with People Who Drain You Dry Revised and Expanded 2nd Edition in PDF and EPUB Protect yourself from people who take undue advantage and suck the energy out of your life Emotional Vampires will help you cope effectively with the people in your life that confound you, confuse you, and seem to sap every ounce of your energy. Bestselling author Dr. Al Bernstein shows you how to recognize each vampire type--antisocial, histrionic, narcissists, obsessive-compulsives, paranoids--and deal with them effectively. He uses many examples from the latest news headlines, which will help you distinguish between the types and deepen your understanding of each one. In response to the daily calls and emails he got about the previous edition of this book, Dr. Al Bernstein has added his advice for dealing with those emotional vampires who come in the shape of spouses and lovers, relatives, and children. Dr. Bernstein shows you how to deal with each vampire type and what you need to do to keep from getting drained.


Emotional Vampires Dealing with People Who Drain You Dry Revised and Expanded 2nd Edition

Filename: emotional-vampires-dealing-with-people-who-drain-you-dry-revised-and-expanded-2nd-edition.pdf
ISBN: 9780071790956
Release Date: 2012-06-15
Number of pages: 304
Author: Albert Bernstein
Publisher: McGraw Hill Professional

Download and read online Emotional Vampires Dealing with People Who Drain You Dry Revised and Expanded 2nd Edition in PDF and EPUB Details a range of personality disorders that can be emotionally draining for a partner to deal with, including antisocial, obsessive-compulsive, and paranoid behavior, and presents strategies for mending and avoiding bad relationships.


Emotional Vampires

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ISBN: 0071501894
Release Date: 2002-04-12
Number of pages: 256
Author: Albert Bernstein
Publisher: McGraw Hill Professional

Download and read online Emotional Vampires in PDF and EPUB "Bernstein provides a field guide to the various types of Emotional Vampires and advises readers how to protect themselves from being victims of these predatory personalities."Boston Globe From bestselling author Albert J. Bernstein The author of Dinosaur Brains offers protection from people who seek to destroy the emotional and psychological well-being of others. Like the fabled demons, these vampires: Think their needs are more important than yours Believe "the rules" apply only to other people Use their tempers in the same way terrorists use bombs Emotional Vampires tells readers how to spot a "vampire" in their lives, which defense strategies to employ to prevent one from striking, and what to do if and when they find themselves under attack.


Dinosaur Brains

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ISBN: 0345410211
Release Date: 1996
Number of pages: 272
Author: Albert J. Bernstein
Publisher: Ballantine Books

Download and read online Dinosaur Brains in PDF and EPUB Discover how to cope with instinct, emotion, and irrationality--the dinosaur brain--that disrupts any business enivronment, with a step-by-step process that helps you reason your way through turf wars and power struggles, surly subordinates, temperamental bosses, and more.... "The key to thriving in the corporate jungle is understanding dinosaurs." TIME From the Paperback edition.


Emotional Vampires at Work Dealing with Bosses and Coworkers Who Drain You Dry

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ISBN: 9780071790949
Release Date: 2013-05-24
Number of pages: 256
Author: Albert Bernstein
Publisher: McGraw Hill Professional

Download and read online Emotional Vampires at Work Dealing with Bosses and Coworkers Who Drain You Dry in PDF and EPUB DO YOU WORK WITH VAMPIRES? LEARN HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF! Banish the bloodsuckers from your professional life Whether it's a coworker, subordinate, or boss, there's at least one emotional vampire in every office. These people try your patience, sap your energy, and add an entirely unhealthy dynamic to workplace productivity. The bestselling author of Emotional Vampires and Dinosaur Brains shows you how to spot and deal effectively with these dysfunctional elements in the workplace: ANTISOCIALS, who crave excitement in all its forms, including aggression If your boss or a coworker is trying to push you around . . . Learn that the most important battle to fight with a bully is in your own mind. HISTRIONICS, who believe that what it looks like is more important than what it is If your boss thinks any problem can be solved with a motivational seminar . . . Learn how to get a manager wannabe to actually manage. NARCISSISTS, who believe that the universe revolves around them If your CEO makes Louis XVI look like Gandhi . . . Learn techniques that diplomats have used throughout history to teach infantile monarchs to act like grown-ups. OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVES, who can't seem to see the forest for the trees If there is absolutely no task that your boss considers too small to micromanage . . . Learn to be a Control-Freak Whisperer by seeing your boss's fear rather than your own irritation. PARANOIDS, who think they've found the simple truths that explain everything If you work in a place where you can't get ahead unless you drink the Kool-Aid . . . Learn how to recognize a toxic belief system before it poisons you. VAMPIRE CULTURES: when vampires get promoted to positions of power, they remake organizations in their own image . . . Learn the 15 warning signs that tell you to get out before sunset. PRAISE FOR EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES: "We love so much about this book! A great complement to Dealing with People You Can't Stand, it goes beyond dealing with the merely difficult behavior to the truly pathological. Bernstein offers believable examples and useful descriptions. This is the book to recommend when the topic of truly horrible behavior comes up!" -- Dr. Rick Kirschner and Dr. Rick Brinkman, authors of the international bestseller Dealing with People You Can't Stand "This book equips individuals with the tools to identify and defend against a wide array of emotional vampires at work. It offers well-developed tactics for navigating the most difficult people in any organization." -- Katherine Crowley and Kathi Elster, bestselling authors of Working with You Is Killing Me and Mean Girls at Work "It's amazing how one manipulative, territorial, or otherwise self-serving boss or employee can make the lives of everyone around miserable. In Emotional Vampires at Work, Albert Bernstein offers concrete, step-by-step guidance to manage life around these misfits. You'll learn to take care of your and your valued colleagues' needs, while contributing your best to your organization—with maturity and sanity." -- Nancy Ancowitz, author of Self-Promotion for Introverts


Emotional Vampires and Your Hormones

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ISBN: 9781452581750
Release Date: 2013-11
Number of pages: 154
Author: Alan J. Sault MD, ABHM
Publisher: Balboa Press

Download and read online Emotional Vampires and Your Hormones in PDF and EPUB A thoughtful and thorough look at the pervasive effects of hidden stresses on mind-body health and a look at alternative treatments.


Since Strangling Isn t an Option

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ISBN: 0399525408
Release Date: 1999
Number of pages: 274
Author: Sandra A. Crowe
Publisher: Penguin

Download and read online Since Strangling Isn t an Option in PDF and EPUB Dealing with difficult people is made easy in this valuable new guide to handling the most toxic personality typessnake, donkey, hyena, etc.with style and a minimum of personal anxiety. Reprint.


Impossible to Please

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ISBN: 9781608823505
Release Date: 2012-11-01
Number of pages: 192
Author: Neil Lavender
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Download and read online Impossible to Please in PDF and EPUB Everyone knows someone who is impossible to please, critical, judgmental, picky, and stubbornly closed-minded. These are symptoms of a disorder called obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD), but it’s common for people to have subclinical levels of some or all of these qualities. Most of the time, it’s best to avoid the difficult to please person, but what happens when he or she is a close family member, coworker, or even a spouse? It’s still possible to maintain a positive relationship with the right tools. Impossible to Please, written by the authors of Toxic Coworkers, is a manual for dealing with these difficult people without sitting through stressful arguments, vicious insults and attacks, and passive-aggressive behavior. It empowers readers to take charge of the relationship and regain their dignity and confidence in interactions with these individuals. This book features specific strategies that are immediately effective when conversing with critical people and explains how readers can respond to unfair blame without becoming angry or overly defensive. By setting boundaries, improving communication, and asserting themselves, readers learn to deal with the impossible to please in romantic relationships, friendships, family, and work relationships.


Difficult Personalities

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ISBN: 9781742536989
Release Date: 2012-08-09
Number of pages: 256
Author: Hazel Edwards
Publisher: Penguin Group Australia

Download and read online Difficult Personalities in PDF and EPUB Do you have a difficult personality in your life? Would others consider that you are their difficult person? In this book we have turned the microscope on difficult types of personalities and patterns of behaviour, which range from annoying and confusing to the seriously damaging. Like most of us, you have probably encountered situations with family, friends, workmates or associates who have hurt you. Either they have dam­aged you emotionally or financially, or their behaviour has caused ongoing distress or worry. Understanding how people think and knowing some of the reasons for their patterns of hurtful behaviour will take you part of the way to handling your difficult relationships more successfully. People sometimes do not reciprocate our feelings, fail to appreciate our worth, fall out of love with us, betray, leave, retrench or disappoint us. These are all part of the pain of being human and do not necessarily reflect people being difficult. But some people have ongoing behaviour patterns which hurt many others. They leave behind more than one hurt or troubled person because of their difficult personalities. Some people have a mildly difficult behaviour pattern while others have moderate or very difficult behaviour patterns, and the effect of these patterns on others may also range from minor to severe. Here are some of the guiding principles we have used in identifying and elaborating on these difficult patterns.


The Lucifer Effect

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ISBN: 9781446459188
Release Date: 2011-04-30
Number of pages: 576
Author: Philip Zimbardo
Publisher: Random House

Download and read online The Lucifer Effect in PDF and EPUB In The Lucifer Effect, the award-winning and internationally respected psychologist, Philip Zimbardo, examines how the human mind has the capacity to be infinitely caring or selfish, kind or cruel, creative or destructive. He challenges our conceptions of who we think we are, what we believe we will never do - and how and why almost any of us could be initiated into the ranks of evil doers. At the same time he describes the safeguards we can put in place to prevent ourselves from corrupting - or being corrupted by - others, and what sets some people apart as heroes and heroines, able to resist powerful pressures to go along with the group, and to refuse to be team players when personal integrity is at stake. Using the first in-depth analysis of his classic Stanford Prison Experiment, and his personal experiences as an expert witness for one of the Abu Ghraib prison guards, Zimbardo's stimulating and provocative book raises fundamental questions about the nature of good and evil, and how each one of us needs to be vigilant to prevent becoming trapped in the 'Lucifer Effect', no matter what kind of character or morality we believe ourselves to have. The Lucifer Effect won the William James Book Award in 2008.


Hysterical Personality Style and the Histrionic Personality Disorder

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ISBN: 0876685467
Release Date: 1991
Number of pages: 269
Author: Mardi Jon Horowitz
Publisher: Jason Aronson

Download and read online Hysterical Personality Style and the Histrionic Personality Disorder in PDF and EPUB This revised edition of the classic work on the hysterical personality begins with a new chapter, introducing the core characteristics of the hysterical personality disorder and providing a framework for the reader that changes and is enlarged in each successive chapter. The second chapter deals with the fundamental diagnostic and formulative issues. The third considers the development of the disorder in terms of childhood and adolescent antecedents. Basic treatment principles are presented in the fourth chapter, and the change process in reschematizing psychological treatment is addressed in the fifth. This last chapter presents a case in detail, indicating development of schemas of self and others; showing how core aspects of personality may change as a consequence of new forms of relationships and new uses of conscious thought.


In Sheep s Clothing

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ISBN: 1935166301
Release Date: 2010-04-01
Number of pages: 174
Author: George K. Simon
Publisher: Parkhurst Brothers Incorporated Pub

Download and read online In Sheep s Clothing in PDF and EPUB Modern permissiveness and the new culture of entitlement allows disturbed people to reach adulthood without proper socialization. In a book meant both for the general public and for professionals, bestselling author and psychologist George Simon explains in plain English: -How most disturbed characters think. -The habitual behaviors the disturbed use to avoid responsibility and to manipulate, deceive, and exploit others. -Why victims in relationships with disturbed characters do not get help they need from traditional therapies. -A straightforward guide to recognizing and understanding all relevant personality types, especially those most likely to undermine relationships. -A new framework for making sense of the crazy world many find themselves in when there's a disturbed character in their lives. -Concrete principles that promote responsibility and positive change when engaging disturbed characters. -Tactics (for both lay persons and therapists) to lessen the chances for victimization and empower those who would otherwise be victims in their relationships with many types of disturbed characters.


The Curmudgeon s Guide to Getting Ahead

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ISBN: 9780804141444
Release Date: 2014
Number of pages: 144
Author: Charles A. Murray
Publisher: Crown Business

Download and read online The Curmudgeon s Guide to Getting Ahead in PDF and EPUB A whimsical guide to workplace etiquette shares real-world advice on everything from political correctness and good writing to thinking critically and treating others with respect. By the author of the best-selling Coming Apart.


Dealing with People You Can t Stand Revised and Expanded Third Edition How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

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ISBN: 9780071807852
Release Date: 2012-07-27
Number of pages: 288
Author: Dr. Rick Brinkman
Publisher: McGraw Hill Professional

Download and read online Dealing with People You Can t Stand Revised and Expanded Third Edition How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst in PDF and EPUB The classic guide to bringing out the best in people at their worst—updated with even more can’t-standable people! Dealing with People You Can’t Stand has been helping good people deal with bad behavior in a positive, professional way for nearly two decades. Unfortunately, as the world becomes smaller and time more compressed, new difficult people are being made all the time. So Kirschner and Brinkman have updated their global bestseller to help you wring positive results from even the most twisted interactions you’re likely to experience today. Learn how to get things done and get along when you’re dealing with people who have the uncanny ability to sabotage, derail, and interfere with your plans, needs, and wants. Learn how to: Use sophisticated listening techniques to unlock the doors to people’ s minds, hearts, and deepest needs Apply “take-charge” skills that turn conflict into cooperation by reducing the differences between people Transform the destructive behavior of Tanks, Snipers, Know-It-Alls, Whiners, Martyrs, Meddlers, and other difficult types of people This enhanced eBook includes features you won’t find in the print edition, including: 7 comic book style presentations embedded with audio that depict different scenarios of dealing with toxic personalities—illustrating tips and strategies for making the best of the situation 16 entertaining and engaging videos showing how to resolve conflict situations with demonstrated positive and negative strategies Link to the Lens-of-Understanding Self-Assessment you can complete to evaluate your relationships with people in your life Access to a 27-minute audio of the authors explaining on how to change your overall attitude, so you can use the tools in the book even more effectively Whether you’re dealing with a coworker trying to take credit for your work, a distant family member who knows no personal bounds, or a loud cell phone talker on line at the grocery store, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand gives you the tools for bringing out the best in people at their worst.


The Two Step

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ISBN: 0802130321
Release Date: 1994-01
Number of pages: 160
Author: Eileen McCann
Publisher: Grove Press

Download and read online The Two Step in PDF and EPUB Equating the struggle to achieve intimacy with the choreography of a simple dance, the author demonstrates how easy it can be to sidestep conflicts of power and distance and transform them into a meaningful closeness